OK if you don't mind seeing your woman having intercourse with other men.
One important thing about sex that I realized, is that we're made of sex. There is sexual energy that we use, and if you believe in theories that there is no time and all is happening at the same time, then at the same time you're here, you're also being created by the sexual act of your parents, and we know that the begginning and foundation of a thing is important. That's just an example that made me realize we are pure sex, when I looked at a small kid, who have their sexual energy at full speed, only not being used to have sex yet. If you really look at a small kid, or even an adult, you can see it's not only the result of the sex act, we are sex. It's hard to explain my realization, but maybe someone will agree.