But if I don't become a wage slave, how can I own property or pay for traveling and hobbies or find a mate?
I've had violent fantasies before, as I'm sure most guys do (do they??) but they haven't become a reality yet, and its possible they never will.
I once cut a guy off, and he followed me into my pizza place, where he called me a fucking retard. I told him we both know what would happen if he wanted to go down that road and he left with his tale between his legs. It's the closest I've ever been to a fight. I'll probably get in a few once I start going to bars.
See, now we're getting somewhere, because you're referring to actual goals in life. And here's the thing - getting into a few fights does NOT prevent you from owning, traveling, hobbying, or fucking. Not even remotely. You were probably joking with the bars comment, but all the same do your best to avoid getting into drunk fights, those are pathetic. You shouldn't back down from a challenge, but that doesn't mean you should be out looking to start fights, and if you're going to be harming other individuals you should be doing it in full awareness.
Don't cut people off. I understand that driving can be frustrating, but if there's one area in modern life where a zen attitude would best serve you, it's while driving in traffic. A fight will, at worst, send you to a hospital for a night (unless, again, you're a dimwit) - a vehicle collision can easily send you to the grave, and they occur way too easily to ever make allowing your "pride" behind the wheel become a factor.