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Phoenix

Re: Women
September 22, 2011, 11:00:16 PM
Any recommendations on going about finding such a person (increasing odds)?

Search your city for stores, groups, clubs and organizations that are up your alley, or start one of your own. For example there' www.meetup.com with lots of discussion groups. You can also find groups listed on Craigslist, etc. You can check out local occult shops if that's up your alley. Check out clubs are your school. In all these places your chances still aren't very good, but I think it's a place to start. As a woman you could also try posting a personal add on Craigslist, but as a man there are so many men already posting for women everyday probably your post would not be read by many women the kind you're trying to attract (who have the time and desire to read through all that BS).

This is reality speaking, you're going to have to compromise of some of your criteria or die alone.

Sure, but just understand it's a compromise.

Also one's view of the afterlife really affects the equation. If you believe there's a whole other universe to explore after you die (if you pass through the bardo successfully or etc), then it would be ludicrous to believe you could find your best match on this small planet during such a limited amount of time.

Re: Women
September 23, 2011, 04:19:53 PM
If that's the case, consider this. You aren't ever coming back to this little planet again. Enjoy the splendor, grow, learn what you can. If you do encounter the chance for love in a greater existence, you will at the very least have firsthand knowledge. That way you aren't running into things screaming duh what the fuck!

Re: Women
September 23, 2011, 06:48:58 PM
Confidence + self-reliability + sociability = the prerequisites of an attractive man

Women simply require this trinity of ability in men.

Phoenix

Re: Women
September 24, 2011, 04:45:22 PM
If that's the case, consider this. You aren't ever coming back to this little planet again. Enjoy the splendor, grow, learn what you can. If you do encounter the chance for love in a greater existence, you will at the very least have firsthand knowledge. That way you aren't running into things screaming duh what the fuck!

I'm definitely not recommending ineptitude, and I should say it's not that hard, either, if you know yourself really well and understand where you're coming from.

Confidence + self-reliability + sociability = the prerequisites of an attractive man

Women simply require this trinity of ability in men.

There are more introverted and more extroverted people, I'm not sure a more introverted woman would prefer a more extroverted man?

Re: Women
September 24, 2011, 05:26:06 PM
Confidence + self-reliability + sociability = the prerequisites of an attractive man

Women simply require this trinity of ability in men.

There are more introverted and more extroverted people, I'm not sure a more introverted woman would prefer a more extroverted man?
Haha well shit, you may have got me there, I don't know any women I'd consider introverted. I'm not going to say they don't exist, but my experience tells me the extroverted type is far more common in women.

Also, to be clear, when I said sociability, I meant something more along the lines of good conversational skills, not extroversion. You don't need to be extroverted to be charismatic.

Re: Women
September 25, 2011, 12:45:53 AM
Confidence + self-reliability + sociability = the prerequisites of an attractive man

Women simply require this trinity of ability in men.

You forgot to add money.

Re: Women
September 25, 2011, 03:24:36 AM
Women always feel like something is missing from their lives due to unrelenting patriarchy in society. When they are young they get dolls shoved into their arms and little playhouses with mini ovens.  No coincidence. Then they watch movies that give them princess fantasies. and then they wear merchandise that says shit like "little princess". They grow up.  While teenage boys are watching porn and thinking about gettting laid, girls are thinking that they'll fall in love first and then have their first time. The teenage boy is like "sweet I FINNA GET SOME PUSSY", and half the time does it irresponsibly and knocks the chick up. her life is over. Alternately there's the childless young women.  They meet a good guy, who treats them with respect, and the relationship is happy and stress free. To the man these are the heralded gates of heaven. to the woman this gets boring as fuck. She eagerly fantasizes about the bad guy who she can change into a good guy with her female power. This is the ultimate proof of her power, being able to trap a beast. When a man meets a woman he thinks "please for the love of god stay as you are" when a woman meets a man she has a mold of what she wants him to become.  So she'll settle down with a boring banker and fuck some gangeter on the side because it's the gangster's aggressive alphamale genes that she actually wants to pass on to the next generation. It is fucked. so fucked. instead of a thread on strategies to appeal to the average vapid 26 year old club goer, i would suggest y'all go to the library or something to find potentially goodlooking but slightly socially inept chicks. that's the only hope.