Conservatives attempt to confine us into industrial gender roles from the 60s or 1850s hence your suit and long hair suggestion (btw, pretty commonplace today), yet forget the vast cornocupia of diversity, beauty and ambiguity between the appearance of males and females pre-industrial cultures. Liberalism simply tries to confine us to a vast illusion of thousands of roles, and has no uniting glue. Liberalism and conservatism are both illusions, both continue the protestant capitalist democratic agenda.