Ah. When you like yourself, you know it.
But as Humanicide observes: it's mostly a work-in-progress. Or a non-issue, altogether.
Personally, I feel self-improvement/realization, is a duty all humans must undertake, although comparatively few do.
The idea being to reach a point of balance, where you are all you might be, at the moment you are, without going any further and becoming fake all over again, from the other direction.
Balance is quite easy to recognize: nothing pulls you, either way. Feels terrific, but somewhat difficult to maintain.