Be an active, dominant, violent, agressive and smart asshole and women will love you. Do unexpected and "daring" actions that most men will not do, and they will love you. Their mentality is as simple as that.
These behaviors DO attract women. I know from experience.
What no one mentions is that they usually do not attract women of above average intelligence and character.
Execute all of the above behaviors in a very playful, clever, intelligent manner, and it will intrigue non-dyke women of above-average intelligence and good character. Use your brain to its fullest.
In particular, you'll pique the interest of intelligent, and most importantly, feminine women who aren't snobby hard-asses. They've probably seen enough of the guys who try to paint themselves as intelligent and whatever, those guys are boring, expendable and useless to them. It's best when you're fun and smart. Not smart and dull.
You should have the subtle allure of an intelligent serial killer
(not sure what most of us would call "intelligent"), minus the creepiness and the actual stalking and killing of victims.
Handsome, for a soulless kind of guy.
Anyhow, in my experience, if my jokes go over their head, they're only worth bedding. But still probably not worth the hassle.
If they understand me and I can please them, they're worth getting to know and be with. Since my goal is to be in worthwhile relationships for both the woman in question and myself.
My erogenous zone is my brain, and if they can stimulate that, or at least entertain it, they've basically won me over <3
My advice: Don't date anyone with mental problems and run away as soon as you find out. Bipolars, anorexics, self-harmers, borderlines, drug addicts and so on, just run, you can't save them and you can never trust them (unfortunately, I find myself attracted to these types, perhaps because I find them more interesting than the neurotypicals you find parading the local mall).
You could eliminate that list of mental problems and replace it with "DADDY ISSUES".
You can "save" them if you become a new surrogate, commanding, loving, and respectable father. But most modern men are not up to the challenge of taking the reins over a wild mare.VIRGINS: Be wary of what basket you put your eggs into. She may run off with them, and you may never see them again.
Better yet, save your eggs for other baskets. And if she runs off with your eggs, don't bother chasing her, either.
Also it's probably not worth the hassle anyway, to be with an unstable person with daddy issues. You probably won't be able to please them as well as you should, and you'll mostly be wasting her time as much as you're wasting yours.
Luc Ferry proposes that "love" is an invention which is proper of modern society and the born of capitalism: where traditional man sought for the love of God first, flirt and infatuation came to a second place. With the arrival of modernity, eros became in first place. Something that Eva Illouz finds in Consuming the Romantic Utopia is that this "love" is an extension of late capitalism bringing as result a wide set of commodities and products to improve "love experience" and to increase "sex appeal" which is basically some kind of profitability in a sexual level, with a superstructural edification of "romance".For anyone confused about what love is (a MUST-SEE)http://greatpath.org/Love.php
Now, don't trust this blog reader who can't get any, get out of your couch, and see for yourself: how many people trade their frustrations and needs and surpluses with each other? and... how many will recognize and will not hide it as "love"?
That's the truth about dating, most people don't have souls.
Love is not something that you get. Love is something that you give.
In the condition of "love" there may be a "preference," but there is never any demand.
It is better to give love than to receive love. - St. Francis
Immature love is, how much can I get. Mature love is, how much can I give.http://www.burzum
Love is not an emotion. Love is an activity of the inner spirit.
When our continent was Christianized the advanced (Pagan) love died along with the words we used to describe, understand and express it with, and all that is left today is the one-dimensional and general love of the English-speaking world (and a few additional terms in the more civilized parts of the world). Europe has in other words also in this context because of Judeo-Christianity become a poorer place, with a poorer understanding of and capacity for love.
You see, frjá is a word describing the earthly love; parental love, marital (reproductive) love and racism (the love for those who genetically speaking are closest to you). This love is based on and stems from the blood, from the DNA. This is a primitive and natural love, and although not as noble and divine as ást it is quintessential to the survival and improvement of mankind. This is what makes us love our offspring, feel attracted to genetically speaking healthy partners and reproduce with them, and make sure our genes are carried on to the next generations.
The noblest form of love that is sometimes known to modern man is ingr. This is also part biological, but it is still a more intellectual and even spiritual love and it is harder to grasp. Ingr can be described by the following line; "I love You, therefore I expose You to all the things that can make You a better person".
Love is not a feeling. Feelings are chemicals, and brain-chemicals are ephemeral.Love is eternal.
Love is a condition.
Properly fulfill that condition, and you can have all the brain-chemicals your soul desires.
Be the best person you can be to these women. Make yourself worth their
time, it's not necessarily about whether they are worth yours.
If you think you're wasting your time, you're probably wasting hers too.
All relationships have their trials and tribulations, and it's up to you to weather the storms before you can reap what's yours.
Now, go forth and attract and impregnate the best women with our future philosopher-kings!
Make sure you have her consent first, and don't get Cheeto finger stains on her sheets